Coming to a place like Syn the first time can be intimidating.  Even if you are experienced in the lifestyle you may want more details than what we currently have up.  Here I hope to give you a bit of a run down and provide some more info.  This is as of November 2025.  Some things may change but the general essence of everything should be very similar.   

For privacy reasons this blog is a bit vague on some details.   

Syn’s mission statement: “A safe space for women to fulfill their fantasy’s.”  Everything from the themes, policy and staffing revolves around that premise.  

Ironically the biggest fantasy among women is multiple men.  So by being female focused we end up being solo male friendly.  This tends to be the most controversial part of Syn.  Some in the LS are very vocal about believing solo men don’t belong at a LS club.  If just the presence of a solo male even if they are not bothering you makes you uncomfortable then Syn will probably not be a good fit for you.  

Consent:  Any LS club that has been around for a while will have strong consent guidelines.  At Syn it’s literally our primary goal so we take it very seriously.  You should never be in a situation where you are uncomfortable.  You may have to say no but it should never go past that.  I won’t say it never happens but it is very rare.  Even if staff isn’t around, the Synners really look out for each other.  If something is bothering you simply come up and talk to us.  Sometimes just talking it out will help.  

THEMES:  I feel one of the things we do very well is our themes.  They tend to be much more interactive and unique than most places.  Keeping with our mission statement most of our themes revolve around women having orgasms and getting attention.  Many revolve around women being able to signal consent without having to expressly need to give it.  For example our most popular event is Cum One, Cum All which is known as gangbang night.  If a lady is on a certain bed she is giving permission for men to come up and interact with her.  Of course you can still say no.  “Yes isn’t required but no must be respected.”  We have various versions of the same basic concept to varying degrees of interaction.  

VIBE: The vibe tends to be laid back and sexy.  We go for classy but I would be lying if I say everyone always hits the mark.  You never have to participate in anything or are obligated to do more than you like.  You can just socialize and enjoy the sexy vibes.  Many start off on one level of participation and as time goes on grow more comfortable to do more.  Yes you can just watch.  However we asked for common courtesy.  This isn’t a zoo.

Unicorn Hunting: Many couples’ gateway to the lifestyle is looking to add another lady to their life.  This is referred to as Unicorn Hunting.  The reason it is called that is because it is very hard to find.  At Syn we do get more solo ladies than most places. So you can bag one at least for the moment.   However, understand these are free range unicorns.  Don’t get upset if you see them frolicking in someone else’s pasture.

VETTING:  You must be vetted to join Syn.  You do not need to pay a membership fee, fill out paperwork or submit an essay on what the LS means to you.  Just show up and act right.  We do need to have some vetting to stay legal and keep the tourists to a minimum.  

The best way to vet is send a friend request on Facebook to the Troy SynTulsa account.  I actually hate FB but it is the easiest way to verify someone is real.  To be approved I want to see it is a real FB page that has meaning to you.  I approved multiple times a day.  If you do not get approved in 24 hours feel free to message me.  Most likely I just want to see some effort from you to prove you are serious, and gauge if you’re too stupid to attend.  

If you can’t\wont go that route we try to have an in person vetting event at a local bar every month.  Once you’re approved you will see all the details like location, suggested donation and event themes.  

TOURS:  If you are new you get a tour of the location and a run down how everything works.   You can come out and get the tour at any time we are open, but it is available only to customers that have donated. 

LOCATION:  Syn location has changed a few times over the years, and will most likely be fluid for a while.   Running LS events in the area has a lot of challenges.  There is a reason why we are the only one in the area and why we do things the way we do.  The location will always be in or near the Tulsa area.  Being the only one  we do tend to get very busy.  If you have a hard time with large crowds I suggest getting there as early as you can.  Once you are vetted you will always have access to the info on where this week’s event will be.  

Dress Code:  There is no official dress code.  We ask men to dress like it’s date night and ladies to be as sexy as they dare.  Ladies you can change there and we have lockers\bins for your things.  Feel free to come one way and shed clothes as you shed your inhibitions.    

Adult Beverages:  We do not sell adult beverages.   By law you can not even have adult beverages inside an event like Syn.  However we do not check your cup, bag or car.   We do ask you to moderate and not over indulge.  We tend to be more strict on that than other places.   Syn is not a place to come and abuse your liver.  

The best way to reach us is always through the contact link.  We pretty much stay in trouble on most social media platforms and can’t always respond.  

Any questions feel free to ask.  This blog may change over time.