Welcome to Syn's Online Presence

Syn is a lifestyle club located in Tulsa, OK, and is considered the hottest club in the area.  We average 100-200 people per party, and the parties are always “SYNful”   Doors open at 8 party starts at 9 and early arrival is recommended due to limited space in parking and seating.

For Location Details

Click here for location details.  Syn is open ONLY on the nights listed below.

New To The Lifestyle

New to Syn or the swinging  lifestyle in general? Check out the Virgins of Syn page. Also check out our page on our playroom NR2K for details and common etiquette questions.

Table Reservations

We now do table reservations.  Click the Common Questions link for details.

Click here to reserve a table!

Full Bar

SYN parties are held in a full service bar and are NOT BYOL.  Must be 21 to enter.
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December 7th: Innocence Lost (Non Smoking)

Being new in the Lifestyle can be scary and intimidating. We try an alleviate some of those concerns with our Innocence Lost events.

All Virgins of Syn that make their debut appearance at this event will be entered into a drawing for a free month of Syn. We will give you a month on us to check it out and explore if the lifestyle is for you. If you’re a regular we got you covered as well. Bring a new couple\single with you and you also will be entered into the drawing.  NEW:  We are also adding a couple 1 year memberships to Kasidie.com!

For this event we will also have a special guest host Flame.  Flame will be acting as a social coordinator, matchmaker, soundboard and eye candy.  Feel free to hit her up for questions, concern’s and comments.  She’s there to be your guide so feel free to “use” her.

This will also be a great time for those of you that have been thinking about coming but are not sure. Everyone that is new receives a tour and a rundown of the rules.  If after the tour you decide it’s not for you simply let us know and we will be happy to refund your money. So if you’re on the fence this is a great way to come check us out with no obligations.

As always the first event of the month are always non smoking.  This will be our monthly non smoking event. 

The Cost of Syn is only 20.00 a couple, 40.00 single males with single females free. As always entry gets you into main bar area and the area’s best play room NR2K.

For directions, hotel info and more check out the links above.

December 14th: Topless After 10

Synners favorite game returns this Saturday night. Topless after 10 is a fun game that can help you win lots of prizes for simply “hanging” out.

After 10PM Syn staff members will be going around and giving out tickets to all the topless Synners. This won’t be a one time thing. We will keep making trips around the club all the way till 12. The longer you stay bare breasted the more tickets you win! At 12am we will do a drawing for multiple prizes and you can win more than once!

WINTER EDITION RULE CHANGE:  We normally run this event during the warmer months.  Being the winter version you can have a coat\vest \shirt completely unbutton\unzipped and still qualify as long as you are bare breasted underneath. 

This contest is open to both men and women. If you like to keep the nips covered staff members will have tape to help facilitate that for you.

Table reservations are available. If having a seat is important to you a reservation is suggested but not required. Cost is the usual price of 20.00 a couple, 40.00 solo studs and unescorted ladies are always FREE. For location details and more check out the links above.

December 21st: Synful Santa Sybian

Come experience Christmas in the most adult of ways. Whether you’re trying to be Santa’s favorite Ho Ho Ho or want to experience your first Christmas Train Syn is the place for all your Synful desires.

Our Synful Santa is coming, but he has a present for only the Naughty girls.  Santa is bringing his”Sled” a sybian with lots of attachments. 

It’s been a while since we have had a sybian party and if you never been it’s quite the thrill for the ladies.  We should be set up by 9pm and Santa will run his sled until Mrs. Clause gets tired of making girls moan.  If you don’t know what a sybian is google is your friend.  Martian and Donna have hosted many sybian events with us and are very popular.  They are great about making everyone comfortable and making sure everything is very clean and sanitized. 


Table reservations are available. If having a seat is important to you a reservation is suggested but not require

Doors open at 8 party starts at 9. Cost is only 20.00 a couple and 40.00 for single males with unescorted ladies free. For details on location, hotel accommodations and more check out the links above.  

December 28th: Pre-Exposed

Not everyone can make it on NYE.  Some prefer to stay home with family or have a hard time finding sitters.  No worries you can catch some pre exposure and still party like it’s 2020.

For this event single males will be alowed unescorted into the playroom.  

Bonus for those who can make both events!   Come this Saturday night and everyone through the door will be entered into a drawing for a table reservation\Entry at our NYE event!  This is a BIG prize as we are sure to sell out.  If you already have a table reservation for NYE you can use it for another event.  However everyone else it is good for NYE event only.  You can gift it to whomever you lust for though.

(Note: All table reservations become void if not claimed by 11PM night of event. If you have issues and running late please contact us.)

Cost is the normal 20.00 a couple, 40.00 for single studs and unescorted ladies are FREE! As always the entry fee gets you into main bar area as well as our posh play room NR2K. Doors open at 8 party starts at 9. All Syn parties are hosted in a full bar and are not BYOL.
For details on location, hotel arrangements and more check out the links above

December 31st:NYE Exposed

Another year of Syn is coming to a close and it seems like things just keep getting better. This is the biggest party of the year and always a hot time.   

Come be exposed: It’s NYE so come dress to impress. Syn staff members and mystery judges will vote on the best dressed of the night. We are going to have best dressed couple as well as Best Least Dress. So come looking sharp or barely covered. Winners receive a free entry and bar tab. 

Table reservations are available but always sell out. Cost is the same for this event we NEVER raise cost for our events.  Champagne toast at midnight. 

(Note: All table reservations become void if not claimed by 11PM night of event. If you have issues and running late please contact us.)

Cost is the normal 20.00 a couple, 40.00 for single studs and unescorted ladies are FREE! As always the entry fee gets you into main bar area as well as our posh play room NR2K. Doors open at 8 party starts at 9. All Syn parties are hosted in a full bar and are not BYOL.
For details on location, hotel arrangements and more check out the links above.

January 4th: Holiday Hangover (Non Smoking)

The Holidays are a wonderful time of year to be thankful for the good things you have and to spend time with friends and family.

We are all glad that shit is over with for another year.

Come celebrate the end of the holidays with our Holiday Hangover party. No Christmas music, no dressing up, come comfy and have some relaxing adult fun with your fellow Synners.

For this event only single males will be allowed into NR2K unescorted.  This is our month non-smoking event.

Table reservations are available. If having a seat is important to you a reservation is suggested but not require.

Doors open at 8 party starts at 9. Cost is only 20.00 a couple and 40.00 for single males with unescorted ladies free. For details on location, hotel accommodations and more check out the links above.

January 11th: Hero's & Villain's

2019 is in the books and that means it’s time for our annual Heroes’ & Villains party. How will you approach the New Year? A do-gooder out to help others or an aggressive villain that will look out for yourself?

Come in full cosplay or a simple t-shirt representing your side and let’s get our Syn on for the New Year.

Table reservations are available. If having a seat is important to you a reservation is suggested but not require.

Doors open at 8 party starts at 9. Cost is only 20.00 a couple and 40.00 for single males with unescorted ladies free. For details on location, hotel accommodations and more check out the links above.  

January 18th: Girls Who Like Girls

Every night is ladies night at Syn. This event we are taking it to a whole new level as we celebrate the girls who like girls.

The Girls Only Gangbang returns. The rules will be very similar to our Cum One, Cum All event. The king bed will be lit up and any lady on it is open to allowing another lady to join her without express permission.

Remember the rule is “Yes is not required, but no must be respected.

Only the king bed will be lit. All other beds are open for normal Syn play, and standard club protocol is enforced. Ladies feel free to bring any toys you like to use or have used on you.

RULES & PROTOCOL: Gentlemen please remember this event is about the ladies. Please be respectful, don’t crowd the beds or try and sneak anything in. Failure to do so would result in swift scolding from room attendant and possible removal.
Men please do not “self-love” while in NR2K. In typical double standard fashion ladies feel free to self-love all you want.

Table reservations are available. If having a seat is important to you a reservation is suggested but not require.

Doors open at 8 party starts at 9. Cost is only 20.00 a couple and 40.00 for single males with unescorted ladies free. For details on location, hotel accommodations and more check out the links above.

January 25th: Winter Whiteout

Winter is here so that means it’s time for our 6th Annual Winter Whiteout event. The club will be decked out in white and everyone is encouraged to do the same.

This is always a popular party every year as Synners get to pretend to be virginal for one night. Upscale dressing is not required but encouraged for this event.

For this event Single males will be allowed unescorted into NR2K.

Table reservations are available. If having a seat is important to you a reservation is suggested but not require.

Doors open at 8 party starts at 9. Cost is only 20.00 a couple and 40.00 for single males with unescorted ladies free. For details on location, hotel accommodations and more check out the links above.

February 1st: Men's Shirt (Non Smoking)

Men’s Shirt nights are some of our most popular parties of the year. So much so we decided to do a winter edition.

Ladies grab your man’s favorite flannel shirt and be sexy while also staying warm.

This will be our monthly NON SMOKING event.

Table reservations are available. If having a seat is important to you a reservation is suggested but not require

Doors open at 8 party starts at 9. Cost is only 20.00 a couple and 40.00 for single males with unescorted ladies free. For details on location, hotel accommodations and more check out the links above.

February 8th: Indecent Proposal Masquerade

Sometimes it’s difficult to speak to the person of your infatuation. You yearn for a cover….a mask… only then can you make your Indecent Proposal.

It is our 6th annual Indecent Proposal Masquerade. Masks and dressier clothing is encouraged. This is one of the largest parties of the year and early arrival is highly recommended.

Come dress in theme and receive a free entry into our drawing. We will then make the drawing a 50/50 Plus pot and give away the cash and a whole lot more.


Table reservations are available. If having a seat is important to you a reservation is suggested but not require

Doors open at 8 party starts at 9. Cost is only 20.00 a couple and 40.00 for single males with unescorted ladies free. For details on location, hotel accommodations and more check out the links above.  

February 15th: You Only Hurt the Ones You Love

Every year for Valentines day we do a Fetish\BDSM event.   Details on what demo we will be hosting will be available closer to the event.

For this event single males will be allowed unescorted into NR2K.

Dungeon music will be playing in NR2K and more than usual will be played in the main club area. You are encouraged to let your freak flag fly and come express yourself however you feel.

Table reservations are available. If having a seat is important to you a reservation is suggested but not require.

Doors open at 8 party starts at 9. Cost is only 20.00 a couple and 40.00 for single males with unescorted ladies free. For details on location, hotel accommodations and more check out the links above.   

Feburary 22nd: Mardi Gras Madness

Mardi Gras is the time of year where Synners actually have an excuse to flash everyone.

For 10 years we hosted a Masquerade on Mardi Gras. We decided it was time to retire that tradition and start a new one. details will be aviable closer to event time.

Table reservations are available. Don’t drink and drive or worry about parking. Use our free Syn Shuttle service available to any of the hotels listed on our site.

Doors open at 8 party starts at 9. Cost is only 20.00 a couple and 40.00 for single males with unescorted ladies free. For details on location, hotel accommodations and more check out the links above.

February 29th: Cum One, Cum All

By request our Cum One, Cum All event returns this Saturday night. If you’re a couple or single lady that enjoys single males, has a gangbang or train fantasy this is the event for you.

PLEASE NOTE: This set up is for this event only! Next Saturday night we resume normal rules of operation.

Many ladies have a fantasy of laying on a bed and being taken over and over again. This is a common fantasy and one we hope to help you fulfill. THIS SATURDAY ONLY we are changing the rules for our play room NR2K. The king bed will be designated the ‘Cum One, Cum All” bed. What this means is ladies if you are on this bed you are ready for action and little communication is needed. Normally in the playroom males must be asked to be invited. On THIS BED ONLY “yes” is not required. Of course you can still decline any gentleman you want no matter what bed you are on. However on the king bed this night No must be respected, but yes is not required. Ladies it’s your chance to live out a fantasy in a safe clean environment. It is suggested you have a spotter with you to help look out for your needs.

Upon request we can open up additional beds if needed for the theme. Including the “Bondage Bed” if you would like to be tied down and\or blindfolded for the experience.

To help facilitate your needs unescorted single males will be allowed in NR2K for the night. Not your thing? No worries as always there will be plenty of sexy Synners ready to party. You will not be accosted by a lot of single males unless that is what you want.

RULES FOR THE MEN: Guys even though the lady is acting out a fantasy she is still a lady. Please treat her as such. Remember ladies love a gentleman.
If the lady is on the king bed you do not have to ask to be invited. However you still have to respect their rules. If her partner says no or asks for protection please respect their wishes.
If you are told no don’t take it personally or cause a scene. You will get a chance again soon.
Please do not ask to join anyone not on the king bed. Even if you are polite it can be a real downer if the other couples have to keep saying no. Not all couples there will be into single men. If you are invited that’s great! However please don’t ask if they are interested they will let you know.
Failure to be respectful will get your removed from the event. There will be no refunds for removal.

Table reservations are available. If having a seat is important to you a reservation is suggested but not required.

Cost is the usual price of 20.00 a couple, 40.00 solo studs and unescorted ladies are always FREE.

For location details and more check out the links above.

Any questions feel free to contact us, and we look forward to seeing you all again.

LEGAL DISCLAIMER

While Syn host it’s meet & greets in a public bar we are in no way affiliated with Next Door Bar Grill nor Secrets Gentlemen’s Club.  Bar employees are not allowed inside private lounge area.  Access to private lounge area is by invite only and not open to the public.

Thank you!!