Hey Synners I wanted to take a quick moment and talk about private rooms and why we do things the way we do.  Syn does not offer any private spaces at this location and there never will be at this location.   

One of the big reasons for this is safety.  Everything’s out in the open where everyone can see.  If there is a consent violation everyone knows it real quick  and it gets handled.  One of the reasons we almost didn’t move to the Brookside location was all those rooms were giving me major anxiety.  My main job is to make sure everyone, especially the ladies, are safe.  The idea that someone got trapped in a  room and assaulted literally keeps me up at night.  

If you seen me overreact at Brookside over someone shutting a door or the night we lost power and I’m yelling at everyone to get out of the dark rooms it’s because my anxiety is going nuts.  We had a private room there but with a notice and at least there everyone went into there consentingly but it still worried me.  

The other reason is because Syn is Fem Focused.  Our primary directive is a safe space for women to enact their fantasies.  Everything revolves around that main premise.  From multiple men,watching or being watched,  expensive toys, BDSM, girl play to even just being out topless or sexy.  

Very few women fantasize about having sex in a private room.  That is not to say there isn’t a demand for it, it’s just not targeting our core audience.  

We had one at Brookside mainly because we had this smallish room right off the main area.  It could only fit one bed so it made sense.   However even then it was very popular after 12am, but still only 2 hours a night it’s getting used.  Especially at the smaller locations it makes more sense to use that space for something that will be utilized all evening. 

I’m not opposed to having it.  The location we almost had that no one saw we had so many little rooms we would have had several including some you could rent all evening.  

We are building a new space and it’s possible that location will have it.  However it has to make sense.  For example I would also like to have a pool table which would take up about the same amount of space as a private area.  A pool table would get utilized way more than a private room would.  At the beginning of the night couples would be using it to get to know each other and at the end of the night girls would be getting railed on it.  

Obviously in a perfect world we have everything for everyone.  I tried to build it, I really did.  The realities of the current situation made that where we couldn’t.   So we have to take the cards we are dealt and make it work the best way we can.  

I do understand the want for a private space.  My suggestion is to use Syn to meet people and either go to the room afterwards or make a connection and set up a date outside of Syn.  You can still mingle, watch, flirt and network.